So why was I getting a speech like I’m the other woman?
Because my job lends me to work with more men than women, one of my “boundaries” is to intentionally befriend the wives of men I work with.
My go-to vibrator for the majority of my phone sex career has been the Osaki Twister.
Strangely enough, I usually prefer off-brand, cheaper toys than the super fancy ones with all the bells and whistles.
Becoming polyamorous requires translating theory into practice. You will have to make decisions and set boundaries. You’re not necessarily “bad at poly” or ill-suited to it.